Catherine Kathleen (Black-Palum) Martinelli

December 29, 1929 - November 1, 2021

Birthplace & Residence

Birthplace:
West Pittston, Pa
Resided In:
Laflin, Pa

Viewing

Location:
Howell-Lussi Funeral Home
Date:
Sunday, November 07, 2021
Time:
4:00 pm to 7:00 pm

Funeral

Location:
St. Maria Goretti's Church
Date:
Monday, November 08, 2021
Service Time:
10:00 am to 11:00 am

Cemetery

Location:
Mountain View Burial Park
Date:
Monday, November 08, 2021
Time:
Immediately Following Service

Notes

The family will also receive friends at the Church on Monday from 9a.m. until 10am.

Everyone is asked to go Directly to Church on Monday morning nothing is at the Funeral Home.

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Posted by:
Trish Harrill
Posted on:
November 7, 2021
Nancy, There are no words that can begin to capture the magnitude of your loss. I’m so sorry that you and your family are going through this.
Posted by:
Joseph and Dobbie Martinelli
Posted on:
November 6, 2021
Forever in our hearts.
Posted by:
Nancy Palum Bono
Posted on:
November 5, 2021
My world will never look the same. I love you Mom. RIP 💔
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Howell-Lussi Funeral Home
509 Wyoming Avenue
West Pittston, PA 18643
(570) 654-3741

Funeral

St. Maria Goretti's Church
42 Redwood Drive
Wilkes-Barre, Pa 18702
570 655-8956

Cemetery

Mountain View Burial Park
State Route 92
Harding, Pa 18643

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Kathleen Martinelli, 91, of Laflin died Monday, November 1, 2021 in her home surrounded by love,
family and music following a lengthy battle with old age.
Born in West Pittston on December 9, 1929, she was the daughter of Harry (Evans) Black and Catherine
(Melvin). She was a summa cum laude graduate of West Pittston High School, Class of 1947. She was a
telephone operator for Bell Telephone, but her real life’s work was raising a family of six children and
later an extended family of step children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. She had enough love
(and energy) for all of them!
She was employed by Bell Telephone in her teenage years, right after high school until marriage in 1950
and then in 1971 she returned to work full-time after her husband’s (Bill Palum) first heart attack. In
typical fashion, she rallied in tough times and showed continual strength while working straight through
to a lively retirement party after 30 years of full-time commitment arranged by dear friends Janice
Brody and Marilyn Goeckel.
Bill’s poor health provided Kathleen a life-long friendship with Dr. Joseph Lombardo that bears special
mention here as he shepherded her for nearly 50 years of heath care and monthly “social visits” as she
would call them.
Kathleen was a life-time member of the Telephone Pioneers, an avid reader with Taylor Caldwell’s Let
Love Come Last being her all-time favorite book, but as she would say “with Lonesome Dove by Larry
McMurtry a very close second!” She loved music, every kind, every genre (except bing bang boom) and
there was always music on in her home right up until her last breath when we played her favorite
holiday music. She loved the holidays and with her birthday in December and her dad being Santa Claus
(first at the North Pole in Lake Placid, NY and later locally at Fowler-Dick-Walker in Wilkes-Barre and The
Globe in Scranton), she absolutely cherished the Christmas Season. All holidays were spectacular… but
from October through Russian New Year… her home was decorated to the hilt. Ironically, that may have
even rubbed off on most of her children!
While raising her children, she was always active as a Girl Scout leader, catechism (CCD) instructor at
Immaculate Conception Church in West Pittston and later a Wyoming Area High School Band Parent,
traveling to all of the local football games and band competitions with her childhood forever friends
Aunt Joanie (Yonelunas) Bahl and husband, Uncle Eddie Bahl.
Together they also formed their own personal Penn State tailgating team… what memories they had in 70 years of friendship.
Kathleen’s life gained even greater happiness in her later years when she joined the Pittston Senior
Center with Aunt Helen DeLuca and met her knight in shining armor, Joseph Vincent Martinelli.
His love rescued her from the darkness and loneliness of being widowed after 42 years of marriage. Joe
was full of life and got her involved in everything. They sang together in the Pittston Senior Center
Chorus and Avoca Community Choir. He even got her bowling on several teams and she helped him to
form a traveling bowling league with the Senior Center. Together they bowled on several local leagues
including Modern Lanes in Exeter, Elko’s in Dupont and Stanton Lanes in Wilkes-Barre. (This was the only
“exercise” she liked… besides dancing polkas, of course!)
She was a continual learner – taking real estate and tax classes, computer learning classes, arts and
crafts, public speaking with her “dollar words”, ceramics and even Powder Puff mechanics at Bell
Telephone. She loved history and was a very proud American never missing the chance to wear RED,
WHITE and BLUE on every Memorial Day, 4 th of July, Labor Day and most importantly to her, Veterans
Day. It is fitting that she will celebrate this 11/11 with her veteran husband and brother. And we are
certain she will be teaching patriotic songs, making everyone wear The Colors, Raise a Flag, and play
John Phillip Sousa marches all day!
While she claimed to be a home body and loved to record her favorite TV shows… everything from
Judge Judy, Wheel of Fortune and Jeopardy to Pennsylvania Polka, Saturday Night with Lawrence Welk,
and even The Bachelorette, she loved to travel. At first just to Atlantic City on bus trips to “make her
deposit,” but that universe grew to include California, Florida, Las Vegas, NV, Nashville, TN Hawaii,
Vermont, Niagara Falls, Delaware, Salt Lake City, UT, Branson, MO and of course Virginia and North
Carolina to visit family.
Kathleen loved to play the piano, sing and dance, bake Christmas cookies, and eating her coffee ice
cream. She canned her own tomatoes, chili sauce and pepper relish (from her mother’s handwritten
recipes) and even wrote her own songs and poems. She loved the color RED, and when Joe came along
YELLOW moved way up on the list! She was a great mix of FORMALITY: always ironing and correcting
poor grammar, yet FUN: never a moment without a pun or a joke in conversation!
She always carried a few things with her wherever she went: a handkerchief, a good book, her puzzles, a
sharp pencil, and her lipstick.
She was preceded in death by her loyal and loving husbands, special friend Sam DeSalvo, parents, in-
laws, brother Harry Black and wife Alberta (Pugh), sister-in-law Kay (Palum) Glasser and husband Fred,
son-in-law Robert Walling, and nephew Donald Black. Her list of passing friends is too long to list and
with each announcement she read, she yearned for her youth and shared vivid memories of laughter
and good times.
Her later years were blessed by her very special “puppy boy”: Romeo Martinelli. Never much of an
animal person, she would INSIST that Romeo found her that first Christmas after Joe passed… and there
was no changing her mind… that getting a puppy at 84 years old may not have been a good idea!! And
that Pittston Senior Center saved her life… made possible by former director Connie (Colella) Andrews
Kokinda, friends of Table 2 Troublemakers (Amy and Juanita). They all kept her busy and filled her days
with bingo playing and the Friday Wii bowling team consisting of her eldest daughter Barbara Joan, and
dear friend, Phyllis Bonomo. Kay (as Sam called her) playfully named them: Sam’s Harem.
She is survived by daughters Barbara (Palum-Walling) Shock and husband Jerry, Duryea, PA; Joyce
(Palum) Mashinski and husband Bill, Fairfax, VA; Sharon (Palum) Eroh and husband Ron, Raleigh, NC;
sons William (Billy) Palum and lifetime companion Mary Kay Berringer, Sterling, VA; James (Jimmy)
Palum and wife Theresa, Goodview, VA; and youngest daughter Nancy Lynne (Palum) Bono and husband
Rod, Raleigh, NC; stepson Joseph Martinelli and wife Dobbie, Dunmore, PA. and final caregiver Sammi
Williams - her own personal angel of care. 17 grandchildren and 14 great grandchildren.
A final wish of my mother’s was to thank the Keim family and her forever friend Joan Pribula personally,
particularly for writing letters to her over these past few years. She treasured those (and her beautiful
handwriting.)
When you live to 91, you outlive most of your loved ones and she always prayed to never have to bury a
child. God granted her that wish as we are all honoring here with all of these words today. God Bless.
Guests may call from 4-7pm Sunday, November 7th, 2021 at the Howell-Lussi Funeral Home Inc., at 509 Wyoming
Avenue in West Pittston or from 9-10am at the back of St Maria Goretti’s Church, Laflin, PA.with a
Catholic Mass officiated by Father Paul McDonnell immediately following at 10am. Final resting place
will be Mountain View Cemetery, Harding, PA.  Everyone is asked to go Directly to Church on Monday Morning.